Why do we say “Yes” when we want to say “No” ? [ mile 39 ]
by daveed guillermo
We exist in an abstract concentric circle of “Yes” or “No” decisions. Some are inconsequential, petty others are so crucial that one decision can change our life forever.
In Decodelink I call decisions “Vectors” A vector that help us to achieve our goals is a “Positive Vector” sure you know already what is a “Negative Vector”
In many situations, we do not even know whether to say “yes” or “no”. This happens when we lack balance between the Inner Universe and the Natural Universe. When our Inner Universe and Natural Universe are not aligned with one code our personal and professional “Vectors” are affected. The choice to say “yes” or “no” always present to us like a colorful carrousel.
On a personal level we lack the confidence to voice our convictions so we do not speak when we want to speak, or we speak when we know it is inappropriate or ineffectual.
On a professional level, we are more likely to agree to business deals we know will not work in order to avoid conflict or to play out wishful thinking.
Conversely, maybe we are more likely to avoid interactions that can benefit us because we are afraid of risk or are unsure of our abilities.
We indulge in throwaway acquaintanceships with people we do not necessarily like or care about to the detriment of our true friendships.
We may conform to religions and attend churches that do not represent our own faith, choosing simply to go through the motions.
Welding into our existence all these positive and negatives Vectors within time we create the structure of our past and future in our present. In some point of our life we reflect on how past Vectors have an effect on our today present for good or bad.
Saying “no” or “yes,” we interact with the world around us. There is profound rule in our vectors, only we are able to say “yes” or “no”. in our progressive present We can’t act or move anything in either the future or the past..
It will help us to keep from obsessing about the future because the future do not exist is an abstraction of our mind and the past ? departed already as an experience.
Believe me. we are moving forward in the right direction, seeya